The Help
Essay
Change can be scary. It's
different from what you know. But change can also be a really good
thing.
Skeeter used to turn away
when her friends mistreated their help, or pranked their children.
She never gave the black people a second look, they were just maids.
The only black woman she idolized and loved was the maid who raised
her, Constantine. Constantine was always there for Skeeter growing
up. She was like a mom to her. I think that Skeeter started to
realize how society was set up when she got home from school and
Constantine was gone. Skeeter stared to notice things, small things,
like how differently people acted around and towards Negros. She
found a booklet of the laws that separate the black and white people
and found it astonishing. That's when her idea of writing the book
about maids and their stories began. She soon became good friends
with Minny and Aibileen. Other maids trusted her enough to be apart
of the book too. Her so-called friend, Miss Hilly, became suspicious
of what Skeeter was up to when she found the book of laws in her bag.
Before she knew it, nobody would even say hello to Skeeter. Then, it
was just her, the help, and the book. Skeeter needed this book so
bad, needed to make a difference around Jackson, Mississippi. Around
the world. Skeeter evolved from this sheltered girl who didn't
question much, to a woman who was risking her life for her negro
friends, and for a change.
Minny was a hard strong
woman hiding behind fear. Fear of herself being beaten by white
people and her husband. Fear for her children, that she won't be able
to feed them one day. Fear of being weak. Minny has such a sass mouth
and strong attitude. Wouldn't take shit from any one. When her
husband drinks too much and starts pushing her around, there was
nothing she could do but let it happen.
Minny would never trust a
white woman, they were no good to her. White women never treated her
with respect, always being rude and lazy. So Minny wasn't so sure
about the idea of talking to Skeeter about her stories. She had a
family to take care of and the last thing she needed was someone
burning her house down for talking to a white women. But there was a
part of Minny that wanted to get it all out. She wanted a difference
too, for her children and their future. She was hesitant at first but
she soon trusted Skeeter. And not only did she trust Skeeter, a bond
between her and her new boss, Miss Celia, was formed. Miss Celia
didn't treat her like a maid. She treated her like a friend, with
respect and loyalty. She slowly became softer with Miss Celia, more
caring. She worried about her when she didn't eat, or didn't leave to
house, or lingered upstairs too much. Both Mis Celia and Mister
Johnny cared about Minny and were so grateful to have her. She learnt
that not all men are bad.
When Minny's husband found
out about the book that Minny was apart of, he went crazy. She
thought this time he would actually kill her. But Minny found the
strength to get her and the kids out of there. She left her husband
and that was something she never had the courage to do before.
Aibileen used to be quiet
and she kept to herself a lot. She did what she was told and that was
that. When Skeeter asked her to be apart of the book, Aibileen got
really scared at first. What if people found out and killed her? But
there was something inside Aibileen that wanted to speak out and make
a difference so much. She wanted a better future for everyone. So she
started working with Skeeter, and soon they had a real good
friendship going.
Aibileen loved the little
girl she was taking care of, Mae Mobely. She wanted Mae Mobely to
have a nice life, she wanted her to feel loved and happy with
herself. She wanted her to know that there was no difference between
black and whites, especially after she started writing the book. She
didn't that Mae Mobely to end up like her mama. So everyday Aibileen
would tell Mae Mobely nice things about herself. And everyday
Aibileen would tell her a “secret story” which would be about how
white and coloured people are the same, that colour doesn't matter.
Aibileen knew that is Miss Leefolt found out what she's teaching her
daughter, they would both be in trouble, but they both understood the
meaning of “Secret”. Aibileen went from this women who didn't
talk much and respected peoples wishes, to a women who needed to
change the way some people viewed the coloured. She risked her life,
job, and friends to make a difference, and that's bravery.
All these women matured in
their own ways. Change can be a good thing. It can make a difference.
It can determine who are you. It can teach the difference between
wrong and right. It can unit people as one.
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